Often, life’s most difficult moments don’t provide any warning. A sudden job loss. A wrenching heartbreak. A life-changing illness. The death of someone you love. WHAM. One event can divide life into before and after. And whether you’re the person experiencing the loss—or the friend, colleague, family member or leader standing beside them—there really isn’t a guidebook for what comes next. I want to be clear from the beginning: I’m not a grief expert. I’m a grieving mom and wife.…